Parents on one sides, judges and teachers on the other side. Cramp into a small gym, both sides encouraging these two ten years old girls fighting. I'm one of the 4 judges in a Tae Kwon Do competition It's a junior fight and one of the fighter is overpowering the other with unceasing kicks to the chest. She starts crying, couldn't take the extra pressure. The main judge stop the fight and ask the little girl: "Do you want to stop fighting?" And sobbing and crying she did not want to stop fighting. She kept going, so much so that her opponent also started crying. Both girls kept on fighting, crying and the whole audience, the parents, the judges and myself also wanted to cry. It was a powerful moment. We don't often that chance to experiment with crying and fighting! On another note, I've been really enjoying post from stopher: gopher://gopher.club/1/users/stopher/ About change, I agree, humans are meant for change. This is what makes us human, we adapt to everything. In yoga philosophy change is the only constant in one's life.